I know what you're thinking..."This post is about a month and a half late!" Well, I did start thinking about this back in January, but I wanted to take some time to think and pray through what I thought my goals should be. Some of them I'm really excited about and actually have some sort of plan for. Others, well, seem very daunting and overwhelming. Which is part of the reason I'm sharing. I'm hoping for some accountability and prayers, because I know that those are what will keep me on track!
1) Make better use of my time!
Ephesians 5:15-16 says
"Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil." I think that "making the best use of the time" is a little different for everyone because God has given each of us a unique calling. And when we are faithful to God and His calling, we know full well when we are NOT making the best use of the time!
God doesn't promise us tomorrow, or our next breath for that matter, but I sure do live my life like I've got all the time in the world. I take for granted that I have plenty of time to do the things I know I should be doing, so I do the things I want to do first. That, my friends, is just plain selfishness! And I don't care who you are, God did NOT call you to be selfish!
Right now, my calling is to be the wife to a man that works full time and is pursuing his PhD and to be the mom to two very active little boys and all that those two "jobs" entail. That's where my focus and my priorities need to be and all other pursuits (however important and good they may be) need to take a back seat. I know that it may be completely different for you (and really this one "goal" could be a whole separate blog post in itself). But for me, the Holy Spirit has really convicted me, and I know that I have been seriously lacking in this area.
2) Cook more (eat out less)
This one is pretty self explanatory, but will most likely be my hardest goal to reach. It's not that I hate to cook, it's more that there's always other things I'd rather be doing. Not to mention, I just really don't care that much about food. Don't get me wrong, if it's there, I'm gonna eat it. Hence the reason for goal # 4 : ) I would just much rather have someone else prepare it and then clean it all up!
What it comes down to is I need to get better at meal planning! (Any tips would be greatly appreciated!!)
It seems like most of the time I wait until the last minute and then am frantically looking through the pantry and freezer trying to decide what to make and if I have all the right ingredients.
3) Memorize scripture
This is one of those goals that is a typical new year's resolution for me. I always have the best of intentions, but then quickly get very lax on the actual process. A big part of my problem in the past was that I didn't really have a plan. That's what is different this time around.
I've heard this suggested by a couple of other moms that I really look up to and that's why I'm giving it a try. I have a little notebook (actually is a bunch of 3x5 note cards that are spiral bound) and as I come across different verses that really stand out to me I write them on the note cards. Then I will carry the notebook with me (probably in my purse because that's always with me) and whenever I have a spare moment I can read through them. For example, the doctors office, carpool line, the check out line, etc. There are easily three or more times, everyday, that I would have the opportunity to do this. The more you read them, the more ingrained the verses become. How many of your children's favorite books do you have memorized because you've read them so many times?! Same concept!
4) Loose some weight 7 pounds to be exact. I know you're probably thinking "why even mention that one?", but hey, I'm just trying to keep it real. I'm not a good diet-er so my plan is to start small. So far I've already lost 3 of my 7! Yay! In reality I have about 20 pounds to loose (10 pounds per kiddo that I didn't loose with the rest of the "baby weight"). I'm thinking doing it in small chunks will work better for me. I'm pretty sure that if I can do better with goal #2 that it will help me out here too! I've also started be more intentional about exercise. I even went to a zumba class...once : ) It was a lot of fun, and yes, I plan to go back.
5) Actually DO some of the things I've "pinned"
Ok, so spending (a lot of) time on Pinterest is part of the reason for goal #1. But I really do try and stay focused on finding things that actually pretain to my life like recipes, cleaning tips, etc (not random things like stuff I played with in my childhood or places I'd like to visit but never will) and I have already done several projects that I had pinned with plans to do several more. So it wasn't really a waste of time...right?!
As of right now I have about 6 or so completed pinterest projects and a handful more "in the works"! I can't wait to share them with you. My hope is to post one to two completed projects each month. Until then you can check out what I've been working on
here. Yes, I really did create a pin board so I could re-pin all the stuff I have completed! Dorky, I know, but I'm OK with that!
Well there you have it...my goals for this year. Your prayers, as well as any advice or insight, are much appreciated. I hope you are having a wonderful weekend!!
** All images (except the pinterest button) in this post are from google images**